1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 This programme contains strong language 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,120 I love us. Previously... I didn't ever think you felt like that. 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:08,240 ..while Love Hate Week strengthened some marriages... 4 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:09,560 Today's love day! 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:12,920 There's no other way to put it, I love this man. 6 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:15,560 You'll quite happily shift the blame to me, I can't win with you. 7 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:17,800 ..it revealed worrying faultlines in others. 8 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:19,720 Sorry. 9 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,760 Grace is hard work. 10 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:26,280 And as lies and mistrust continue to haunt Julia-Ruth and Divarni... 11 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:30,440 I don't care whether people know that we have sex or not. You do. 12 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:32,320 I said we've had attraction issues. 13 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,200 If you're embarrassed of me, why have sex? 14 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,480 She wanted me to not tell everybody about the intimacy part. 15 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,200 It's not fair. I don't know what to do. 16 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:40,960 ..Joe and Maeve's reunion... 17 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,240 Can you really see us working on the outside? 18 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,600 ..threw their relationship into turmoil. 19 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:50,160 I'm feeling overwhelmed. But why? That's how I feel! 20 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:52,200 What the BLEEP is going on? 21 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:53,240 Tonight... 22 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,800 Are you ready to take our intimacy to the next level? 23 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,640 ..Leigh no sooner enjoys a breakthrough with her own wife... 24 00:00:58,680 --> 00:00:59,720 Yes. 25 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,480 ALL: Woo! Yay! 26 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,840 ..before she's on a collision course with another... 27 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:07,120 And she's a little snake. 28 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:08,840 I'm trying to BLEEP say to you, Julia-Ruth, 29 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:10,080 you're the one in the wrong. 30 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,600 ..as Julia-Ruth faces a backlash from the entire group. 31 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,320 She's been slating you since day one, 32 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,800 and her opinion hasn't changed. 33 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,560 She's been saying it to all the girls, mate. 34 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,520 This relationship is fake. 35 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,840 I'm gonna leave. I'm not doing this. 36 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:24,600 I was here for a husband, I found one. 37 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:25,680 I don't need fame. 38 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:30,000 She is making an absolute mockery of the experiment. 39 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,640 The challenge came at the right time. 40 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,640 After navigating Love Hate Week... 41 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,080 We needed to hash a few things out to move forward. 42 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,480 I think we're one of the strongest couples still here. 43 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,520 Are we going matching, then? Maybe I'll surprise you. 44 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:53,960 ..the couples are getting ready for the fourth dinner party. 45 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,920 BAILEY: Oh my God, right. REBECCA: Stick your finger in there. 46 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,320 No! My germs. 47 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:01,760 Actually, that feels nice. 48 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,240 I love your dress. Thank you. 49 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,280 REISS: What do you reckon? Think it's all right like that? 50 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:15,080 No. 51 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,320 Like that? That's better. 52 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,640 I haven't seen Joe since our last conversation, 53 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,320 but I'm going to meet him for a coffee. 54 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,560 Last time I saw him, we left on really bad terms. 55 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:35,280 Like, I have so much love for Joe, 56 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:36,480 but I'm in limbo. 57 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,920 Joe's got a lot going on at the minute. 58 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,280 I know he's struggling, but at the same time, 59 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:43,760 I've been in here by myself. 60 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,720 Just want honest answers. 61 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:49,720 What's actually going on between me and him? 62 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:58,360 I feel like, today, a lot of people have got a lot of questions to ask. 63 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,040 Lot being talked about with Divarni and Julia-Ruth. 64 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,160 If it was me, I would be out of here 65 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,760 because she's telling everyone that she doesn't fancy him at all, 66 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:08,040 she doesn't know why they've been matched, 67 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:09,240 there's not one thing she likes. 68 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:10,920 She said she told him ten times... 69 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:12,600 That she doesn't fancy him? ..yeah. 70 00:03:12,640 --> 00:03:14,480 But yet she's secretly sleeping with him. 71 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,200 Divarni popped over to my apartment this week, 72 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:19,600 and I kind of told him what I'd heard. 73 00:03:19,640 --> 00:03:21,360 I just felt transparency was important. 74 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,040 When I last spoke to you after you spoke to Divarni here, 75 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,800 it was like Divarni was so sure 76 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,400 that they weren't going to progress in their relationship. 77 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:30,520 Everything had come out, 78 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,200 and he felt like he'd been mugged off and made a fool of. 79 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:34,760 I don't even know where they're at now. 80 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:40,760 How are you feeling about tonight? 81 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:42,400 I'm actually quite looking forward to it 82 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,760 because I feel like we're going in after a good week. Mm. 83 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,920 So, like, we've got no problems at the moment. 84 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,040 I feel like this is the strongest we've been, Leigh and I. 85 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,040 We're definitely moving towards a more intimate relationship, 86 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,560 so I'm happy, the way it's going. 87 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:57,920 I feel like the energy tonight 88 00:03:57,960 --> 00:04:00,480 is going to be people reflecting on their week... 89 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,160 Yeah. ..and there's been a lot of drama this week. 90 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,080 Yeah, you're right, actually. Julia-Ruth and Divarni... 91 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,480 ..I feel like way too much has happened for them to come back from. 92 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,680 I think it's quite abundantly obvious 93 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,480 that she's just not into him. 94 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,720 I mean, she was sleeping with him behind closed doors, 95 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,320 but she can't even answer on the couch if she fancies him or not. 96 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:19,560 Mm. 97 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,280 It's the stuff that she said to all of us, 98 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,320 that she just doesn't find him attractive. 99 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,040 And I feel like he's been humiliated way too much now, 100 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,040 at this point, and I think, if she knows, deep down, 101 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,600 that there's not going to be anything further, 102 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:31,880 she needs to be honest with him 103 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,240 and honest with herself and everyone else. Yeah. 104 00:04:35,840 --> 00:04:38,280 I am 100% Team Divarni. 105 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:41,160 If he's going to continue to try and make things work, 106 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,640 I feel like that, in a way, is Julia-Ruth getting into his head 107 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,240 and making him believe that something's going to come out of it 108 00:04:46,280 --> 00:04:48,240 when I think it's all been made pretty obvious 109 00:04:48,280 --> 00:04:49,840 that nothing's going to come of it. 110 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:59,560 I'm not telling anyone anything about our week. 111 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,320 We're not going to go live with our issues this week, no? 112 00:05:05,840 --> 00:05:08,440 We haven't even argued once this week yet. 113 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,520 Yeah...no. 114 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:14,240 Just a drunken dispute. During Love Hate Week, 115 00:05:14,280 --> 00:05:17,120 a remark from Ashley landed poorly with Grace... 116 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:20,600 Grace was being a dick. We can't really... 117 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,360 ..pointing to deeper issues in their marriage. 118 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,200 There's a level of joke and then there's a bit of disrespect. 119 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,160 Things like, we've obviously had a tiff, 120 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:33,480 and this morning when you summarised it, "Grace is being a dick." 121 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,960 It's always on me, and to be honest... It's not always on you. 122 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,520 I've changed loads of myself to be with Grace. 123 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,040 Do I want to change this bit of me as well? 124 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,920 You want me to laugh it off and be playful. 125 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,040 Then you want me to call you out in the moment. 126 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:47,080 You've got to tell me, Ash. 127 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,400 I thought we'd already put it to bed. 128 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,640 OK, then we'll put it to bed. We'll move on. 129 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,680 Love Hate Week was eye-opening. 130 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,240 It kind of helped me emphasise a few points 131 00:05:59,280 --> 00:06:01,400 I've really been trying to drive home for Ash 132 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,320 that he might finally now understand. 133 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:07,680 We cannot seem to have one simple, straightforward week. 134 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,000 I'm sick of fighting, to be honest. Me too. 135 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,800 Thought at this stage, we'd be a lot better. 136 00:06:15,840 --> 00:06:18,120 I didn't think these things would still be coming up, 137 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,840 and why try and relive and rehash things? 138 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:24,080 Like, I don't want to lose parts of me in this, 139 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:25,400 I don't want to be something I'm not, 140 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,840 I just want to be in here and be me and be accepted for that, 141 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,040 so I'm hoping it gets easier, 142 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:36,680 because I don't think I could, like, do this all the way through. 143 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:44,760 Having time away from Maeve 144 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,160 has definitely given me more clarity on the situation, 145 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:51,280 and there are problems in the relationship. 146 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,800 I'm a lot more sort of laidback when it comes to disagreements. 147 00:06:54,840 --> 00:06:57,440 I feel like we need to openly discuss these problems 148 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,800 rather than just sort of beat around the bush. 149 00:06:59,840 --> 00:07:02,240 I respect Maeve and I care about her dearly... 150 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,720 ..but I'm definitely pulling back slightly from the relationship. 151 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:09,440 You all right? 152 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:10,760 I really do want to work out 153 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:12,480 whether we are going to work going forward. 154 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:16,920 I got you an orange juice. 155 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,000 Thank you for that. 156 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,360 Just been shit, ain't it? 157 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:29,440 Yeah. 158 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:36,440 The dinner party is tonight, like, are you coming with us or... 159 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:38,600 ..or not? 160 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,080 I can't, because I've got my grandad's funeral. 161 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,200 Like, it's tomorrow. So I'm gonna have to go back home. 162 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,000 Yeah. Obviously, that's fine. 163 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,440 But I feel guilty... Why? 164 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,120 ..because again, it's like... 165 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:53,480 ..leaving you in the shit. 166 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,400 Yeah, but it's not, though, it's like something completely different, 167 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,880 do you know what I mean? Like, of course you need to do that. 168 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,640 All I need to know is, like, where we're at. 169 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:08,160 I'm sorry for, like, being away, but I've needed it. 170 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,520 I've just not been kept in the loop with anything, though, have I? 171 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,440 But what are your thoughts on everything? 172 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,280 It's not about what I'm feeling, it's about what you're feeling, 173 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,880 because I feel like I've just been pushed away throughout this. 174 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,000 Like, where's your head in this, like, with me and you? 175 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,800 Do you know what I mean? Like, I don't know where it is. 176 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,880 There's things which are putting, like, doubts in my head. 177 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,400 Like what? Like... 178 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:38,040 You know that you go from 0 to 100, like, pretty quick. 179 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:39,480 I feel like I've got to watch what I say 180 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,160 in case you might fucking just... 181 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:43,880 ..take something the wrong way or... 182 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,160 ..stuff like when I've been, like, say, 183 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,760 going for a coffee in the morning, you wouldn't, like, come with me... 184 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,240 If you want to do more stuff, tell us. 185 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,160 I'm just telling you now. I'm not asking... 186 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:55,360 You've not been here, though. 187 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,240 Fucking eye-roll at us all you like. 188 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,240 Do you know what it is? I'm gonna fucking... 189 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,800 I'm not saying, "Let's do something every single day"... 190 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:09,560 Fucking hell, man. ..once or twice a week. 191 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:11,960 You haven't fucking been.... So I can't go and... 192 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:13,440 Fuck you, you've not been... 193 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,000 Why are you saying, "Fuck you"? 194 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,240 I really do want to have these discussions, 195 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:23,480 but it's not easy talking to Maeve about these things. 196 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,840 She does just go off on one very easily. 197 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,960 I don't like drama, I don't like confrontation. 198 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:30,400 But you can't blame this all on me. 199 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,080 I'm not blaming it on you. 200 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:36,120 I'm not saying, "You're wrong, I'm right." 201 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:37,640 But where do we go from here? 202 00:09:37,680 --> 00:09:38,880 Like, where? That's what I need to know. 203 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,480 That's what I'm saying, we, we... 204 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:44,480 ..I just feel like I can't give a definitive answer 205 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:45,680 on what's going on. 206 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,800 Well, that doesn't help me, though, does it? Because I need to... 207 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,840 If you're not coming back, just say. 208 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:51,320 Because then I can go. 209 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:53,200 I've got every intention of coming back. 210 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:55,520 I don't know. 211 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,760 I totally get that your head is all over 212 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:02,360 and you've got a massive thing that you need to do back at home, 213 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,720 But I feel right now, that Joe's taking a step back. 214 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:10,880 Joe means the absolute world to me. 215 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,600 Ideally, we could work through this, 216 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:17,000 but right now, I don't know if he's thinking the same. 217 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:32,760 Well, we've now officially passed 218 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,360 the halfway mark in the experiment, so gloves are off, guys, 219 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,800 this is the business end of things. 220 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,160 We don't want any couples to be coasting, 221 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,400 or hiding, or avoiding. 222 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,000 This is where things get real. Now, of course, 223 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:47,560 on the back of Love Hate Week, 224 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,640 it's really important to see if the couples are able to be honest 225 00:10:51,680 --> 00:10:53,760 about what's going on in their relationship, 226 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:55,560 and can they take that feedback? 227 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,240 You know, this is what we want to see. 228 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,840 Come on, then. Oh. Ooh! 229 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,600 Rebecca and Bailey, first in tonight. Yes. 230 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,760 You look lovely, I'll just stand here and watch you. 231 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:09,480 Aw. 232 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:12,400 Cheers. Chin, chin. Cheers. 233 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:16,520 I'm interested to see if Joe and Maeve will walk in together. 234 00:11:16,560 --> 00:11:19,440 I think if he comes, he'll walk in alone, maybe. 235 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:24,200 Mm. So it sounds like something's happened with Joe and Maeve. 236 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,880 We need to know more about what's going on here. 237 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,680 So is this the calm before the storm, I reckon? 238 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:40,240 Hi! Hi. Ah, Leigh and Leah. Fabulous. You look gorgeous. 239 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,760 Nice, cute dresses. Hi, baby. They look good coming in. 240 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,320 Hands held all the way through, smiles, 241 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,200 good body language. 242 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:52,520 Well, when we saw Leigh and Leah on the couch last week, 243 00:11:52,560 --> 00:11:54,120 there was a real breakthrough, I think, 244 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,000 for Leigh, where she was realising that, 245 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,720 yes, her walls were up, and she was making some real effort 246 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:01,840 to be a little bit more open and transparent with Leah. 247 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:06,360 You had a nice week? Yeah, we've had a nice week now. 248 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,720 Yeah, we had an argument. About time yous had an argument. 249 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:10,520 No, it's not, what are you on about? 250 00:12:10,560 --> 00:12:12,840 I feel like now it's fine, yeah, I think we got over it well. 251 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,160 Go on, girl! There you go. 252 00:12:20,560 --> 00:12:21,600 Ooh! 253 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,400 Hi, guys. Strangers. Grace and Ashley. 254 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,360 You look gorgeous. Thank you, honey. 255 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:31,240 The last time we saw them, they were in a great space. 256 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,160 Let's see how they've done this week. Yes. 257 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,240 You both look like you've got the weight of the world 258 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:40,920 on your shoulder. Something's happened, 259 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:42,080 I can tell by yous are all... 260 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,240 Yeah, what's going on? What's on your mind? 261 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:49,160 This is definitely a bit odd. They can't even look at each other. 262 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,920 What's going on? So we did, um, Love Hate Week this week. 263 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,120 Oh, yes. So when we were doing the hate, 264 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,560 I turned around to Grace, and I was like, um, 265 00:12:57,600 --> 00:12:59,200 "We're fine", like, we're not arguing, 266 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,160 "but, like, Grace was just being a bit of a dick", 267 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:02,320 and I smiled and winked at her, 268 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:03,520 and then she sort of smiled back at me, 269 00:13:03,560 --> 00:13:04,880 so I thought it was taken as a joke. 270 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,200 Yeah. And then Grace brought it up a bit later then 271 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:08,280 and I was like, 272 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,240 why did you feel the need to bring that up, and in that situation? 273 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,200 Well, there's a lot of emphasis on, like, 274 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:14,720 "You're taking it the wrong way", 275 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:16,720 but your jokes are just at my expense, 276 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:18,040 like, paint me in a bad light, 277 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:19,720 so that you can make other people laugh. 278 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:22,200 I'm just a bit sick of it now. 279 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:28,040 Observing Grace and Ashley, it looks like the two of them are competing, 280 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,200 they're point-scoring. 281 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,360 Neither of them here are taking accountability 282 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:32,960 or acknowledging that what they've said 283 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:34,440 might have upset the other. 284 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:38,080 I think when you have an argument and you are blaming each other, 285 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,120 you've kind of lost each other, haven't you? 286 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:44,160 And I guess the issue with this kind of conflict management 287 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,400 is that, well, it doesn't resolve anything. Yes. 288 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:48,480 So it's only going to escalate from here. 289 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:57,200 Hey! Ah, yous all right? 290 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:58,440 Oh, Maeve. 291 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,800 Yous all right? You look lovely. Thank you. 292 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,240 Obviously, our heart goes out to Joe. 293 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:09,120 It must be tough for him. He's gone to his grandad's funeral, 294 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,400 so that leaves Maeve to arrive on her own again. 295 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,400 And this dinner party environment can be a very lonely place 296 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,080 if you're not with your partner. 297 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,880 Right? So... Didn't know if you'd be coming in on your own. 298 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,840 Um, so, yeah, I saw him this morning. 299 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:25,960 Oh, OK. Yeah. Oh. Um, he's just told me 300 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,320 that he's going to his grandad's funeral. 301 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,680 That's fair enough. If he's got a funeral, fine. OK. 302 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:33,440 So that's why he's not here. 303 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:37,160 Has he said when he's coming back? 304 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:41,800 When I walked in, we started off, like, arguing. 305 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:43,080 Well, I said, I was like, 306 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:47,280 "I get it, like, you're going through a lot, but just communicate with us." 307 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,760 I just feel like he's not being honest. Mm. 308 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,440 Sounds like there's more to this. 309 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:54,320 I mean, looking at Maeve's response, 310 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:57,200 this is not just about him going to a funeral. 311 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:58,600 I don't think he's being honest, either. 312 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:04,200 I had a conversation with Joe and quite an in-depth conversation, 313 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,960 telling me that he doesn't love Maeve. 314 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:09,360 I'm feeling really conflicted. 315 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:10,720 Like, Maeve's saying all this, 316 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:14,400 and I know more than everybody else. 317 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:16,960 I feel for Maeve. She deserves answers, 318 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,120 but I'm not betraying Joe's trust. 319 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,560 I feel really muggy, but what am I supposed to do? 320 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,040 Do you think him staying away this week is him, like, 321 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:27,400 he doesn't want to burden you, or... 322 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:29,480 Yes, but that's just pushed me away. ..does he want to be away from you? 323 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,480 Because what I'm trying to understand is, 324 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,800 yes, he's got a lot going on externally, 325 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,680 but why does he not want to be around you? 326 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,680 I don't know. I don't know. 327 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:44,560 I just think it's shit. Well, let's not forget that not long ago, 328 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,520 Joe sat on our couch and told us he was in love with Maeve. 329 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:52,680 She seems confused, upset. I really feel for Maeve. 330 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,760 I'm really stressing that I'm doing this alone. 331 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,080 I'm not waiting forever. 332 00:15:58,360 --> 00:15:59,440 Just say it how it is. 333 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,480 Hey, darlings. How are we doing? 334 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,160 April and Leo. 335 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:09,760 Lovely, gorge. Mwah! 336 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,160 Hello. How are you, you all right? How are you? 337 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,400 Looking happy together. Yes. 338 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:22,200 But once again, they have gone their separate ways quite quickly. 339 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,160 It's like they're desperate to get the support from the group, 340 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,200 as opposed to being a unified couple. 341 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:28,760 And in particular for those two, 342 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:33,200 it is April who darts away first. Yeah. 343 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:34,640 How's everything going with you and Leo? 344 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:37,560 A bit difficult, because... 345 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:43,880 You're very switched on, you're very fast. 346 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:45,000 I think he's a lovely guy, by the way. 347 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,440 I spent a lot of time with him at the thing, 348 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:47,920 he's actually so sound. 349 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,480 But do I think he's going to be someone 350 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,560 that's gonna keep your mind going? 351 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,360 Mentally stimulating. No way. 352 00:16:57,240 --> 00:17:00,600 When we initially met Leo, he was larger than life. 353 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,640 But there is something about this dynamic with April 354 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,640 that is not bringing out his best. 355 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,000 Whatever is going on in that dynamic, 356 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,160 he's keeping himself small. 357 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:14,080 And that's keeping her bored. What's the situ at home now? 358 00:17:14,120 --> 00:17:15,800 Like, he's intimate and that? Or is it just like... 359 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:16,880 No. 360 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:17,960 Oh. 361 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:20,960 Well, this is really sad to see, 362 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,520 because we know that April and Leo had a great sex life 363 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,560 when it came to the honeymoon, 364 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:30,360 but something has not gone quite right here. 365 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,480 What we know is, if there isn't an emotional, 366 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:35,480 stimulating connection between couples, 367 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:37,840 that can really impact intimacy. 368 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:41,640 I think, like, what's on, kind of, our minds is Divarni. 369 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:43,520 Bailey saw him. He was very, like, 370 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,960 just saw everything for what it was. 371 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,760 He was like, "Yep, she's mugged me off, she's fooled me", like. 372 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:50,640 She's been slagging him off for weeks, 373 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:51,920 she's been lying to everyone 374 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:55,760 and saying she's not sleeping with him when she is. Wow. Oh. 375 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,160 So they are sleeping together. Wow. 376 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:02,760 Are you attracted to him, or are you not? 377 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,880 This is ridiculous. Why? Yes. Yeah. 378 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,520 Now he needs to respect himself and, like, 379 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:12,040 put himself first above Julia-Ruth. 380 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:14,080 That means that Divarni and Julia-Ruth 381 00:18:14,120 --> 00:18:15,880 have been lying to us for the last few weeks 382 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:17,880 about whether they've slept together or not. 383 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:19,080 Now, I understand privacy. 384 00:18:19,120 --> 00:18:22,320 Now, you can literally just say, "We don't want to talk about it," 385 00:18:22,360 --> 00:18:25,720 but to actually pretend that you haven't been intimate when you have? 386 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:27,360 That's unacceptable. 387 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:28,760 No, but seriously, 388 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:32,720 am I bollocks expecting Julia-Ruth and Divarni to walk in together? 389 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:36,720 There's a point of, like, no return, and I think they're way past that. 390 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,080 Last week was really difficult. 391 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,800 Divarni and I spent nights in separate apartments. 392 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:57,240 It's been tough. If I was outside of this experiment, 393 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,880 I mean, I wouldn't take half the stuff that I've gone through, 394 00:18:59,920 --> 00:19:01,880 but she has apologised. 395 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,520 We've got this. Yeah, yeah. 396 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:12,800 We had our time apart, 397 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,600 we reconciled, came together. 398 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:17,680 I don't think there'll be too many happy faces 399 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:18,800 that we'll be together. 400 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,240 Divarni, it's probably the first time I've seen him so emotional. 401 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:29,200 It's like in this, as well, everything is so, so intense, like. 402 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,920 I feel like he's going to get his feelings really hurt. Yeah. 403 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,480 Yeah. Ooh, someone else? 404 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:39,240 Hi. 405 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:41,600 Wow. 406 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:44,200 Hello, hello. 407 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,880 Hey, guys. Um... 408 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,160 They look happy, I don't understand. 409 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:00,000 I don't even know what to say at this point. 410 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,920 How are you? Hello, my love, how are you? 411 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,520 Come on. Fuck! 412 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:12,960 That's the coldest reception in MAFS history, right there. 413 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:31,640 How are you? Hello, my love, how are you? 414 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,520 They're together, then. 415 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,840 I'm, like, baffled by it, but... 416 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,000 I'll probably, yeah, I'll probably ask. 417 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,160 Go on, then. 418 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:54,320 Where do you want to sit? 419 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,200 Right next to you. 420 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,320 This is so awkward. 421 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,520 Surprised to see you guys here together. 422 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:16,680 Yeah. Yeah? 423 00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:21,640 What's the latest? Let's get into it. 424 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:24,880 What's the latest? 425 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,440 Yeah, we obviously had a bit of a week, didn't we? Defo. 426 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,960 Celebrated yesterday, our one-month. Yeah. 427 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,600 Our one-month anniversary. Cool. 428 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:41,640 That makes sense. 429 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,120 I think - let's go back, 430 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,480 let's go back to the beginning of the week... Rewind! 431 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,560 ..because, I mean, we're not living in La La Land any more, are we? 432 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,080 Well, understandably, the group's confused. 433 00:21:53,120 --> 00:21:55,320 I mean, we're confused. Last time we saw them, 434 00:21:55,360 --> 00:21:56,480 Julia-Ruth couldn't even say 435 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,000 whether she was attracted to her husband or not, 436 00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:59,040 and here they are. 437 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,960 Clearly, they've been sleeping together and lying about it. 438 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:03,040 Yeah. 439 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,640 What's happened? Like, basically, you've got all the heat at the spa, 440 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:08,720 everyone put everything on you. 441 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,080 Everyone went in on you, basically, and said you were delusional. 442 00:22:11,120 --> 00:22:13,120 That was what everyone's belief was, at that point, 443 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,440 that you were, you were painting a picture of this lovely, 444 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,040 happy situation that we knew from Julia-Ruth wasn't reality. 445 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,200 Why - how has this 180ed, is what I don't understand. 446 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:23,320 I've apologised to this man 447 00:22:23,360 --> 00:22:25,680 because this is the person that I'm in a relationship with, 448 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,240 not everyone, so this is the man who I owe an apology to, 449 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,520 and who I have apologised to. 450 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:34,520 There's a difference between keeping something private, 451 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:35,560 I totally get that... Yep. 452 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,680 ..but to give a completely different narrative 453 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,520 of, like, no attraction... 454 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,240 Attraction or whatever, I don't know, 455 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,240 call it what you want, I have struggled with it, 456 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,760 but there's lots of things that draws me to Divarni... 457 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,720 I don't know... ..I'm not done talking either. 458 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:53,120 I do fully put my hands up in the sense that, like, 459 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,400 I overdid it or whatever. 460 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:58,360 I fully do take accountability for that. Overdid what, though? 461 00:22:58,400 --> 00:22:59,960 Playing down that we hadn't had sex 462 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,560 when there was a time when we were having sex. 463 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,360 His character has been ripped apart for weeks. 464 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,200 You talk so much about what you're not getting from him... 465 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,400 ..but behind closed doors, he is doing those things. 466 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:13,200 Are you attracted to Divarni? 467 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:21,520 Obviously I am if I'm having sex... 468 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:22,640 Why not tell your girls, then? 469 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,520 Because I'm still fucking figuring a lot of things out here 470 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,120 with our relationship, I'm not going to lie. 471 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:27,440 But attractiveness is base-level. 472 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,480 Sorry we're not you and Rebecca and have had a smooth sailing. 473 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,520 Hang on, we've not had smooth sailing. 474 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,120 It's also very real. Like, it's real, babe. 475 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,240 I feel like you do need to make your mind up, Julia-Ruth, 476 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,680 because he's infatuated with you. 477 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,880 Yes, he is, and Divarni is clearly in a place 478 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:46,200 where he doesn't even understand the reality of his relationship, 479 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,800 because he's so attracted to his partner. 480 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:49,880 Like, he is, everything about you. 481 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,200 Seriously, though, don't now force it down my face. 482 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,720 I will take accountability for what I've said. 483 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,240 Do you not feel like you've been mugged off this whole time? 484 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,040 Obviously, before, yes, I did, and that's why I was fuming. 485 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:04,040 We spent nights apart and that gave us clarity, of course. 486 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:10,360 This group is highly upset because week in and week out, 487 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,040 these couples are putting in the work, 488 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,680 going through the highs and lows 489 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,240 of what a relationship journey is supposed to be. 490 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,840 Yes, the couples are really insulted 491 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,200 by the fact that they are putting in the work 492 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,360 but Julia-Ruth is not really doing it 493 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,840 and essentially making a mockery of the process. 494 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,560 They need to focus on their own relationships. 495 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:31,640 It's bullshit. 496 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,560 ALL: Hey! Hi, guys! 497 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:40,760 Are you OK, my love? 498 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,560 You couldn't have come in at a better time. 499 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,640 OK, good, that fills me with lots of joy. 500 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,160 At last, some sweetness and light. 501 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,000 You feel relieved when they walk in. Here they are. 502 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,040 I worry for him, man, 503 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:56,240 I worry that he's going to regret it. 504 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:57,800 Should we get him over? Yeah. 505 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,880 Divarni, do you wanna go for a chat? 506 00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:02,560 Can I chat with the boys? Ugh. 507 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,240 LEIGH: Yeah, can I come? Don't have to ask permission, just you, mate. 508 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,560 If you go, it's done. You think so? 509 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,120 I think what we've seen here 510 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,120 is that Julia-Ruth is petrified that actually, 511 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,920 the boys will get into Divarni's ear and turn him against her. 512 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,680 Well, she's losing control, isn't she? Yes. 513 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,840 So the moment Divarni goes over to the boys 514 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,400 without her being present... 515 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,520 ..she's lost the strings. Yes. 516 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,840 This is bollocks. 517 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,920 It is all bullshit. 518 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,800 Is there not an element of you right now that's sat and thought, 519 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,640 "Cool, you've been ripping me apart," 520 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,080 which she has, to everybody, 521 00:25:41,120 --> 00:25:43,120 including me, day after fucking day... 522 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,280 I can't speak about what she's talking to you guys. 523 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,600 No, I know you can't. I'm telling you, 524 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,360 multiple other people can tell you that this is what's happened, right? 525 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,240 And she has made it categorically clear 526 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:53,840 that she doesn't think there's a future moving forward. 527 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,720 You've got to look at it and you've got to be like, bro... 528 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:59,280 All this shit that she was saying to you guys, I put a stop to that. 529 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:00,320 Do you know what I mean? 530 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,400 But that was actually... What? ..genuine. 531 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:06,720 Did I miss that? Whoa. 532 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,440 Divarni just says it like it's nothing. 533 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:16,280 I am worried about how you feel and how you are being portrayed. 534 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,400 What's been happening hasn't been right, mate. 535 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,760 We don't think it's genuine, 536 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,600 and I do hope that you can see it for what it is, 537 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,680 and don't be blinded by your feelings. 538 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:27,760 Sure. 539 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:30,360 It just doesn't make sense. 540 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,520 It made sense, we came together, kind of made a middle ground. 541 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:35,560 What did that come from? 542 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:37,640 I think it was just... 543 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,520 Well, you've just forgiven everything, then, basically, 544 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,880 that's what you're saying. 545 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,080 Forgive, but never forget. 546 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,080 I've forgiven Julia-Ruth. 547 00:26:45,120 --> 00:26:46,600 I still have strong feelings for her, 548 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,200 but for it to progress forward, there has to be a serious change. 549 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,480 Yeah. My sweet, sweet, sweet wife. 550 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,520 Oh, it's really nice to see you guys like this. I love this so much. 551 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,720 I can tell that you guys, like, got way closer this week. 552 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,040 It's really, really nice to see. Yeah, massively. 553 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,760 The stick is well and truly pulled out of my own arse. 554 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:09,600 I love that. Oh! Cheers to that. Cheers to the stick out of her arse! 555 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,080 I love that Leigh can laugh at herself on this, 556 00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:16,080 because that's been a pretty confronting and tough process 557 00:27:16,120 --> 00:27:17,200 for her to go through. 558 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,160 It's nice that they've allowed themselves 559 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,640 to really let go and kind of enjoy one another. 560 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,400 It just feels a little bit lighter today 561 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:24,880 between the two of them. It does. 562 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:30,040 Bonjour. Hi. Ooh. 563 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,040 Reiss and Leisha, holding hands. Yeah. 564 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,800 Now, that was obviously really important for Leisha. 565 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,360 Come here, sexy girl. 566 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,240 They're looking a little bit more aligned tonight, 567 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,280 so it'll be interesting to see how things have progressed. 568 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,760 Yeah. OK, cheers. Oh, cheers. 569 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,760 So, what's the latest, what's been going on? 570 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,560 The last week has all been good, I can't really complain. Oh, is it? 571 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,640 Good. It's been a lot better. I like Leisha a lot, 572 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,760 but she is probably moving at a bit of a faster pace than me. 573 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:05,200 This is common, 574 00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,920 and this is something that happens in probably every relationship 575 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,320 where you have one person who's a little bit faster 576 00:28:11,360 --> 00:28:12,720 and one person who's a little bit slower, 577 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,720 but it doesn't mean that you can't catch up to each other. 578 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,960 Yeah. Well, it's all about that communication between the couple... 579 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,920 Yes. ..about letting each other know where they're at and what they need. 580 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:24,240 I'm not sure that Leisha and Reiss are quite there yet. 581 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:25,960 What about you? What's happening with you? 582 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,080 So we had, like, actually a really good week, for a change. 583 00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:30,720 Um, a nice date... Yeah. 584 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,000 I think things are progressing in the right direction now. 585 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:34,160 Yeah. She's been amazing. 586 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,920 She's a good-looking girl. ..gorgeous person... 587 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,560 Exactly. ..like, there's loads of amazing positives about her. 588 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:44,480 Wahey! Hi! 589 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:47,920 Oh, my goodness. Abi and John, 590 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,440 in the most perfectly matched outfit I think I've seen. 591 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,280 Oh, they are super-cute. Oh, my God. 592 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:57,200 So this couple are strongly signalling to the rest of the group, 593 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,360 "We are tight, and we're doing really well." 594 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,200 Did you do Love Hate Week? Love Hate Week? Yeah. 595 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,480 How was that? It was good, it was easy. Yeah? 596 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,880 Yeah. We've had a really good week. It's just consistency. 597 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,720 She feels really, really comfortable. 598 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,280 Like, I can see myself becoming a better person as well 599 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,400 because of Abi, do you know what I mean? It's good. 600 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,880 Aw, that's really lovely. Yeah, I really like it. 601 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:17,960 That's very good, mate. How's your week been? 602 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,080 Uh, yeah, we had the Love Hate, which was good, 603 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,480 which helped us out. 604 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,400 What were her hates for you? 605 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,040 Um, one of them was, 606 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:32,320 she wants me to be a bit more, like, spontaneous in the bedroom. 607 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,720 Oh, right. Really? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 608 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,640 But I said to her, "Fucking hell, it's not a tap. 609 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,040 "Jesus, I can't turn that shit on and off like that," you know? 610 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,360 ALL CHEER 611 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,480 I missed you guys. Nelly and Steven. 612 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,760 Take her off me. 613 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:56,560 Hi, gorgeous. The last time that I saw Steven, 614 00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,240 I really had to pull him up on how he's treating Nelly, 615 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,640 deflecting, minimising, 616 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,440 so hopefully he's learned, and he's changed. Yeah. 617 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:08,720 How have you and Nelly been this week, anyway? 618 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,560 I think we've had a good week, to be fair. 619 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,000 Yeah, about time, I think. 620 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:14,960 Love Hate for us was good. Yeah. 621 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,120 I think we hashed out a few things. 622 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,800 So what were your hates? 623 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,480 Her hates to me was, she hates that she likes me 624 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,040 more than what I like her. 625 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,200 And I said, "Well, look, I think that's intermittent, 626 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:26,520 "that's always going to change." 627 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:28,200 I've opened up more, I've been more vulnerable, 628 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,520 I've been more emotional. 629 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:30,840 Now I've got closer to her, 630 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,080 she's not saying, "Hurry up, come on, catch up to me." 631 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,200 You gotta work on what's most important. 632 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,880 This week, I don't know anything that's going on 633 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:40,480 because I've kept myself to myself. 634 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,680 I feel like I think this week has just been really good. 635 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,000 I've just felt more comfortable and it's been so nice. 636 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,080 Who would have thought? 637 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:48,920 Well, hopefully this means 638 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,680 that they have worked through some of their issues 639 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,080 and Nelly is getting the positive feedback 640 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,360 that she has really wanted from Steven. 641 00:30:59,920 --> 00:31:01,720 How...how are you? 642 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,600 How are you guys in this position now? 643 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,520 It's not that we're like, "Oh, we're perfect, 644 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,400 "happy, white picket-fence couple now." 645 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,480 We obviously keep coming back to each other, 646 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,440 and sure, maybe he wasn't my type in my head, 647 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,640 or what my exes might look like, 648 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,720 but if we're being intimate, that's taken me by surprise, 649 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,760 and taken me a minute to admit that to myself. 650 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,000 I know everyone's going, "Oh, you've said shit about Divarni." 651 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,480 But I also have said nice things about Divarni. 652 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,520 Why didn't you feel like you could talk with me about it? 653 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:34,800 That's the only thing. 654 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,800 So Julia-Ruth and Davide have a really close friendship, 655 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,280 so I can imagine that Davide's quite disappointed to hear 656 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:46,280 that actually, Julia-Ruth had been lying to him the whole time. 657 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,240 I'm just going to say sorry. Only thing I can say is, like, 658 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,080 I don't think I had processed... Any of it. 659 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,720 ..no. But I'm not making any excuses. I'm just saying I'm sorry, 660 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,160 that's all that I'm saying. I take that. 661 00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:59,280 And I love you, and I'm sorry, bubba, 662 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:00,520 I'm sorry I didn't tell you. 663 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,160 No, for real. No, for real, though. 664 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,800 So many conversations, though... I know. ..in private. 665 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:10,560 And somehow, she's crying. 666 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,480 Because she's been caught out. Mm-hmm. 667 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,880 I'm not good at asking people for help. 668 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,920 I was just taken aback, I'm so sorry I didn't tell you. 669 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,440 It's fine, don't cry, Don't cry. No, no. 670 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,960 Don't cry, don't cry. 671 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,920 I think Julia-Ruth's completely fake. 672 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,320 And I'm so fucking annoyed at this situation. 673 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,320 Ooh. Very nice. 674 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,080 Madame. Thank you. 675 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,120 Oh, you bloody gent. 676 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,240 Hello, darlings. Hello. 677 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,240 Oh, I love. Hi, gorge! You OK, baby? Yay! 678 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,000 Chicken looks quite good, though. It does. 679 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:05,200 I've got a big breast here. 680 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,120 It's massive! You have! 681 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,200 I've got two big... 682 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,240 What about the food? 683 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:16,240 It's pretty with your hair like that. My hair up? Aw, thank you. 684 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,400 Oh. I'm just trying to cheer Maeve up. 685 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,920 Not much is really working. No. 686 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,880 It feels so weird being here without Joe. 687 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:29,160 Of course I feel sad. 688 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,640 Like, everyone's in the couples, and I'm just here by myself. 689 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:39,600 You all right? 690 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,840 Sure? I know that look. 691 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,000 I know that fucking look. 692 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,200 No, you don't know that look. 693 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:01,160 Definitely sensing some frostiness here between Leigh and Julia-Ruth. 694 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,960 Oh, speech! Got another speech. 695 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,280 I am going to do a speech today. 696 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,800 Me and my lovely wife have had a really good week this week. 697 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,480 We've made a lot of progress, 698 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,600 and I feel like we've come into today really happy, 699 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:22,800 so that's good vibes. 700 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:28,240 Um, but I also think that we should all cheers to being open and honest 701 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,280 and saying our true opinions tonight... 702 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,440 ..and so yeah, let's raise a glass to that. 703 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,440 ALL: Cheers. Cheers, guys. 704 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:42,000 Clearly a statement that was aimed at Julia-Ruth - 705 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,040 "Let's get some honesty from you." 706 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,600 Oh, my God! No, no, no. 707 00:34:53,720 --> 00:34:56,000 What? Oh, it felt like you had something to say. 708 00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:57,200 What's your issue? 709 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:02,760 Oh, I've made it pretty clear what my issue is. 710 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,800 I've said it to you and I've said it in the group. 711 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,760 You really seriously need to watch it... 712 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,200 ..because you ran your mouth, babe, seriously. 713 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,320 This is absolute bullshit. 714 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:19,800 Leigh needs to watch what she's saying. 715 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,440 Because you ran your mouth, babe, seriously. 716 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,480 This whole thing tonight from you feels so fucking weird. 717 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,320 Please explain. 718 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,960 You're pulling her up on something, but what are you pulling her up on? 719 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,520 I will pull her up in private and have a conversation. 720 00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,280 Are you happy with that.. More than happy. 721 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:00,680 ..or do you want to shout across the table? 722 00:36:00,720 --> 00:36:02,760 JULIA-RUTH CLEARS HER THROAT 723 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,400 i think she's a little snake. 724 00:36:12,240 --> 00:36:14,280 My thing that irritates me the most, 725 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,840 for you to not even have the maturity to come and talk to me 726 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:19,560 and call me out on my stuff, 727 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,360 to run around and be like, "Julia-Ruth, Julia-Ruth," 728 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,960 you're telling people X, Y, and Z about me and Divarni - baffles me. 729 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,720 If someone asks for my opinion, I will tell my opinion. 730 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,160 All I've done is told him the truth. 731 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,840 I have fuck-all to say to you, Julia-Ruth. 732 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,280 My loyalty lies with Divarni, because you're the one in the wrong. 733 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,520 I feel like when you found out that Divarni and I were intimate, 734 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,000 you've panicked. You were trying to put all the shit 735 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,120 on Divarni and I, when your relationship is a friendship. 736 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,680 OK, well, that's absolute bollocks. 737 00:36:43,720 --> 00:36:45,800 That's a load of bollocks coming out of your mouth, 738 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:47,080 and you're trying to deflect. 739 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:48,160 I'm not trying to deflect. 740 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,560 It's absolutely making no fucking sense. 741 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,320 I think it's abundantly fucking obvious 742 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,120 that if I've got something to fucking say, I'll say it. 743 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:56,240 Some things aren't adding up. 744 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,680 I don't care. I don't care about your opinion. 745 00:36:57,720 --> 00:36:58,760 You don't have to agree with... 746 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,680 I don't agree with what you've done, I think it's wrong. 747 00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,240 Julia-Ruth just tried to pin something on me 748 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,880 because she was trying to deflect from her own relationship. 749 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,920 Sorry that I've told the truth, and you don't like it. 750 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,520 Oh, are we both going for the same chair? 751 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:20,280 Oh, OK, apparently we are. Ooh. 752 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,800 Wow. Sat down in that. Mwah. 753 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:29,160 What happened there? 754 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,560 No, I know, but what happened there? 755 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:36,160 Leigh has been the one saying all this about Divarni and stuff. 756 00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,000 She's on her high horse, yapping her mouth away. 757 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,640 They've done a 180 in their relationship 758 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,320 and they're romantic. Weird. 759 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,240 But you literally are pretending 760 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:54,720 that you guys have got a connection. 761 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:59,960 She's trying to deflect her relationship into someone else's. 762 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,400 This situation is absolutely fucked up. 763 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,280 Can I...you don't have to answer it. No, no, go for it. 764 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,720 Julia-Ruth and Divarni and you are close, so that's fine... 765 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,960 No. Do you think she fancies him? No, definitely not. 766 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,080 I think he is literally besotted with Julia-Ruth. 767 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:17,240 I think she is everything that he wants in a woman, 768 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,120 and it just seems like she's playing with his emotions 769 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,280 for her own benefit. 770 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,960 She has spent five weeks... Slagging him off! 771 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,760 Mate, I've been hearing all of this stuff, 772 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,840 like, slagging him, and then to sit there next to him... 773 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,280 She just keeps going, perpetuating these lies. 774 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,520 I do think he kind of is like, not brainwashed, 775 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,000 but just not seeing it, like, 776 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,000 and he is going to get hurt. It's gross. 777 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:42,560 Julia-Ruth does not like Divarni, she's made it very clear. 778 00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,280 Julia-Ruth is staying in this marriage 779 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:47,000 because she'd really love 15 minutes of fame. 780 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,400 It's not a personal attack tonight on you and Divarni, but... 781 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:58,080 We just don't think your relationship is honest. 782 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,200 How many times do I have to... But please, please listen... 783 00:39:02,240 --> 00:39:04,960 ..put my hands up and say... ..it's not saying you're dishonest, 784 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,880 it's saying this relationship seems disingenuous. 785 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:12,680 Our issue is, this comes across very fake. 786 00:39:12,720 --> 00:39:13,840 Right? Yeah. 787 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:18,280 And that is the issue, this relationship is fake. 788 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,320 It comes across fake. No one believes this is real. 789 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,880 Raise your hand if you believe this relationship's real. 790 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:26,840 Well, then, then, there we go, you've had your opinions 791 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,840 because nobody lets me get more than five words in 792 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,680 before they interject. No, I can't. 793 00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,480 I'm gonna leave. I'm not doing this. 794 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:37,040 Keye. 795 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,720 It's all fucking bullshit. Bubba, bubba, come here, Keye. 796 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,040 Keye. 797 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,000 No, no, I'm not doing this on camera. 798 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,680 Guys, do whatever the fuck you want, I'm going for a cigarette. 799 00:39:48,720 --> 00:39:50,120 I don't agree with it. 800 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,720 I think she is making an absolute mockery of the experiment, 801 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,320 because most of us have come here for love. 802 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,920 Out of everyone here, I was here for a husband, I fucking found one. 803 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,360 I don't need fame, because I actually have a six-figure salary. 804 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,320 Fuck her, what she's done is wrong. 805 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,200 Divarni, I'm sitting next to Keye. 806 00:40:11,240 --> 00:40:14,200 Keye's been telling me she's been slating you since day one. 807 00:40:14,240 --> 00:40:15,480 Is that what Keye said? 808 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,360 I said to Keye, "Does she fancy Divarni?" 809 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:18,800 He was like, "Absolutely not, 810 00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:20,880 "she's made it very clear from day one." 811 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,280 She's been saying it to all the girls, mate. 812 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,840 Surely Divarni's got to listen to this. 813 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,720 And her opinion hasn't changed one second, until now. 814 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:36,120 Julia-Ruth's choices to lie, and to hold information back, 815 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,520 has had an impact on everyone in that group. 816 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,720 They feel deceived, it's reduced the trust. Yeah. 817 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,240 It's fractured them. 818 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:52,200 Got the box? 819 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,040 Bloody hell. 820 00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,080 Are you ready to take our intimacy to the next level? 821 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,160 Yes. 822 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,040 No hesitation. Yeah. Very certain from Leigh. 823 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,880 Yes. This is new, this is good. Yeah. 824 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,040 I think even Leah's shocked. 825 00:41:19,240 --> 00:41:23,440 It's not genuine, they've been stiff as boards this whole time. 826 00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,960 Enjoy pretending that you guys are into each other. 827 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,800 Like, it's going to get exhausting, 828 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,560 but do your thing, girl. 829 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:33,920 Who is the most and least honest couple here? 830 00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,080 Most honest? 831 00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:40,560 Well, other than us, 832 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,640 because I feel like she's brutally honest with me... 833 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,720 ..I'd probably say Bec and Bailey are the most honest. 834 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,000 There's a lot of honest people in here. 835 00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:52,800 There's dishonest people as well, I feel. 836 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:55,560 Least... 837 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,000 ..because of what's been happening... 838 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:05,080 ..obviously yous. 839 00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:09,840 Divarni... 840 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,560 ..do you believe that I'm attracted to you? 841 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,320 Mm, 842 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,800 that's a tough one. 843 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,240 Um... 844 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:29,200 Your answer. 845 00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,240 I don't think so, no. Really? 846 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:38,360 No, no, no, emotionally, we're getting to that level, for sure, 847 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,560 and there's attractiveness in so many different ways, 848 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,080 but physically, I don't think so, no. 849 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,560 OK. Yeah. But you've slept together. 850 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,960 Julia-Ruth, have you been emotionally or physically attracted 851 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,840 to another husband in this experiment? 852 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:01,840 Yeah, physically, 853 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,000 I think there's someone here that's physically attractive. 854 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,720 Who? But I wouldn't cheat on you, but... 855 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:18,120 ..probably Steven. 856 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:24,320 Fuck. 857 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,440 Nothing would transpire or happen, 858 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,680 that's not what I'm here for. 859 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:34,840 Shit. Like, straight off the bat, 860 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,920 she wasn't able to answer if she was actually attracted to me, 861 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,080 but when it was a question that pertained to another husband, 862 00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,600 that was easy, that was easy for her to answer. 863 00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:51,920 It doesn't surprise me that Julia-Ruth has said 864 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,200 that Steven would be her type physically, 865 00:43:54,240 --> 00:43:56,560 but at the end of the day, he's not your husband, so back off. 866 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,000 It must be really difficult for Maeve 867 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:34,920 to see all these lovely couples 868 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,560 showing so much affection to one another, 869 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,880 and of course Joe isn't there with her. 870 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,800 You know, I feel really sorry for her right now. 871 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:47,560 How many times have you seen Joe? Twice? 872 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:48,840 Uh, yeah. 873 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,360 If you don't want to be in this, just say, 874 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,000 "I don't want to be in it, it's not for me." 875 00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:56,280 I feel like you're quite an upfront person, 876 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,760 and you deserve the same courtesy back. 877 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:00,840 Maybe we need to accept 878 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,880 that he's just not in the headspace to break up. 879 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,720 "If I pull away enough, she'll do it, 880 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,040 "and it'll save me the emotional investment" 881 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,000 of having to break up with you himself. 882 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:12,200 Do you think that's possible? 883 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,760 I'm gonna cry, I can feel the tears coming. 884 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:24,960 I just feel mugged off. 885 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,280 Howay. 886 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:32,800 Um... OK. 887 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,120 I feel like a fucking mug. 888 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,120 I just fucking hate this. 889 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:46,800 I know. 890 00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:50,640 I'm sorry that you feel that way, I really am. 891 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:53,600 We all think the fucking world of you, though. 892 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:55,640 Yeah, but that's not Joe, though, is it? 893 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,200 I get that, obviously, going to a funeral, 894 00:45:58,240 --> 00:45:59,280 I totally get that, 895 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,000 That's not what I'm upset about. It's the days before. 896 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,360 Yeah, and I get that you need space to do whatever you've got to do, 897 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,040 but you've not really kept me in the loop. 898 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,960 Until he's back and he can answer himself, 899 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,120 that is what... But how can anything go back to normal? 900 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,040 Right now, you've been... 901 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:17,280 Left. Yeah. 902 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,520 And that is the hardest part of this situation for Maeve, 903 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,160 is, this is not new to her, 904 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,600 this has been an ongoing pattern in her life 905 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,160 with the men that she's been connected with. 906 00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:31,480 And sadly, 907 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:35,800 it's just reconfirmed her fears that men are going to let her down. 908 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,000 I mean, could you see yourself giving him, 909 00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:40,240 is there a world where you're like, 910 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:41,440 "OK, he's going through a lot, 911 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,040 "he went through a funeral, he's not himself"? 912 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:47,280 Just feel completely mugged off with the full thing. 913 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,920 Don't fucking sit and tell us that you love us, then leave us. 914 00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:51,560 Yeah. Like they always fucking do. 915 00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,280 It's every fucking time. Yeah, but Joe's not everyone else. 916 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,160 But he is, he's just another lad 917 00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,600 that's fucking mugged us off yet again. 918 00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:05,880 And here I fucking am 919 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,360 in the same situation, 920 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,440 fucking upset over a fucking lad. 921 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:18,080 I've done everything and more for him. 922 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:27,000 But just say, do you know what I mean? 923 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:28,080 Oh. 924 00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:32,000 What do I do now? 925 00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:37,400 The question here is, 926 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:42,240 is Maeve willing to wait for Joe, or is this the end of the road for her? 927 00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,360 Next time... We definitely have the physical connection. 928 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:53,160 Very pleased with how that's going. 929 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,680 ..as some couples revel in their closeness... 930 00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:57,680 You have done the most fabulous job 931 00:47:57,720 --> 00:47:59,520 finding me everything I need. 932 00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,240 ..others confront a crisis. 933 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:06,520 Joe is not being completely honest with what he wants to say. 934 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:07,600 I've seen Joe. 935 00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:09,280 If I go spilling everything he said to me, 936 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,240 then he's never going to trust anyone again. 937 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,800 This is shit. And a reckoning for Julia-Ruth... 938 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:17,080 I've never heard somebody sit on a couch 939 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,520 and lie so much in all my life. 940 00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,040 You're not interested in your husband, we all know that. 941 00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,840 How is that not manipulating the group? 942 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,600 Divarni, is there anything that Julia-Ruth will do 943 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:27,920 that you won't forgive? 944 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,160 ..gives Divarni a decision dilemma. 945 00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,680 A lot of shit that's happened this week. 946 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,600 So I've decided to... 947 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,800 Subtitles by Red Bee Media